Planning your wedding is one of the most exciting yet overwhelming experiences of your life, and having your mum by your side can make all the difference. She’s been there for you through everything, and now, as you prepare for your big day, she can be an incredible support in ways you might not have even thought about.
So, if you’re wondering how your mum can help (or if she’s asking how she can get involved), here’s a guide to making the most of this special time together.
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Your Emotional Rock
Wedding planning is a rollercoaster of emotions. One minute you’re buzzing with excitement, and the next, you’re wondering how on earth you’re going to get everything done.
This is where your mum steps in—not just as your biggest cheerleader, but as the one person who can ground you when things feel overwhelming. Whether it’s reassuring you that everything will be perfect or just giving you a hug when you need it most, she’s got your back.
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Helping You Stay Organised (Without Taking Over!)
Mums have a knack for keeping things on track, and that can be a lifesaver when you’re juggling guest lists, suppliers, and dress fittings. She can help you make sense of timelines, remind you about deadlines, and even assist with those never-ending RSVP follow-ups. The key is letting her help without feeling like she’s taking over—clear communication is everything!
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The All-Important Dress Shopping Experience
One of the most special parts of wedding planning is finding the dress, and sharing that moment with your mum makes it even more magical. She knows your style, she understands what makes you feel amazing, and she’ll be the first to get emotional when she sees you in the one. Plus, she can help with practical things like making sure the dress fits comfortably and works with your wedding day vision.
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The Ultimate Liaison Between You and the Family
Weddings bring families together, but they can also bring out a lot of opinions. If you’re struggling to juggle different expectations, your mum can step in as the perfect middlewoman. Whether it’s smoothing over family tensions or making sure relatives have all the info they need, she can help take some of the pressure off you.
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Helping To Coordinate The Bridal Party
From making sure bridesmaids’ dresses arrive on time to organising hair and makeup schedules, your mum can be an absolute pro at handling the little details. If you need someone to take charge of getting everyone where they need to be on the day, she’s the perfect person for the job.
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Being There For The Big Day Prep
On the morning of your wedding, emotions will be running high, and having your mum there will be a huge comfort. She’ll be the one making sure you’ve eaten something (because let’s be honest, you’ll probably forget), helping you into your dress, and keeping the nerves at bay with reassuring words and happy tears.
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A Speech From The Heart
Traditionally, wedding speeches have been dominated by the men, but times are changing! If your mum feels up to it, she could say a few words during the reception. Whether it’s a toast or a heartfelt speech about how proud she is of you, it’s a beautiful way to celebrate the bond you share.
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Post-Wedding Support (Because It Doesn't End There!)
After the big day, there’s still plenty to do—thank-you notes, organising gifts, and maybe even helping you pack for your honeymoon! Your mum can keep things running smoothly so you can just enjoy newlywed bliss.
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Honouring A Mum Who's No Longer With You
For those of us who don’t have our mums with us on our wedding day, finding ways to honour their memory can be deeply meaningful. If this is something you’d like to do, here are some beautiful ideas:
A Photo Tribute – Display a framed photo at your ceremony or reception with a candle or flowers.
Wear Her Jewellery – A necklace, bracelet, or earrings of hers can help you feel close to her.
Sew a Keepsake into Your Dress – A piece of her wedding gown or a handkerchief sewn into your dress lining can be a special tribute.
Reserve a Seat in Her Honour – A chair with a photo, a flower, or a little note can symbolise her presence.
Carry Her Favourite Flowers – Incorporate them into your bouquet or decor.
Include Her in Your Vows – A special mention in your vows or a reading about her influence can be incredibly touching.
Wear Her Perfume – Spraying her favourite scent can bring a comforting presence.
Light a Candle for Her – A simple but powerful way to include her in the ceremony.
Play Her Favourite Song – Whether during the ceremony or at the reception, music can be a beautiful tribute.
Raise a Toast in Her Honour – A heartfelt moment to remember her during the celebration.
Finding The Perfect Outfit For Your Mum
Of course, your mum will also want to feel amazing on your big day! Whether she’s looking for something elegant, modern, or classic, we’re here to help her find the perfect outfit that makes her feel as special as she deserves.
Our dedicated team at All About Eve Bridal is here to support both you and your wonderful mum in finding the perfect outfits while making sure you both feel 100% comfortable and confident.
Shop online or visit us in-store to find that dream outfit for your mum at allaboutmum.com - Our Sister Boutique specialising in Mother of the Bride / Groom Designer Outfits.
Your wedding is not just about you and your partner - it’s about celebrating love, family, and the people who have supported you along the way.
However your mum is involved, whether big or small, her love and guidance will mean more than anything. So embrace this time together, make those memories, and cherish every moment of your journey to ‘I do’!
